Friends-with-benefits : Do this lead to meaningful relationship?

Friends-with-benefits : Do this lead to meaningful relationship?

The vital things is to take full responsibility for your own actions and emotions at all times.

Friendship with benefit is the famous term that narrates a situation where two friends enjoy a sex with one another with no strings attached.

It’s basically a mere sex action with only the twist being that this is no one-night-stand-type thing. It mostly happens with a very cool friend not random people. Someone you know and lightly care about even without the sexual relationship.

Sometimes partners goes from random sex to increase relationship level the more||Friends-with-benefits : Do this lead to meaningful relationship? [Credit – Instagram]

A Sex therapist Ian Kerner, says, rolling up the sex road might be all you get, alongside the possibility of losing your friend along the way.

“A FWB situation puts your precious friendship at risk. Even when we have no intention of letting it get messy, sex has a tendency to muddle your feelings,” he tells Cosmopolitan.

This really is true enough, it’s often assumed and implied that in all relationships like this; someone moves ahead with the plan secretly hoping that the sex turns to something more serious.

In most cases, these expectations [even if they came into existence midway through the agreement] few times becomes disappointment. The individual who has those feelings might be solely feeling that way; when the other person exactly do not want into anything serious.

But that only tells half the story. Because on other occasions, both partners could develop feelings for each other and decide to elevate the relationship above casual sex.

That could happen, too, and it’s OK. Afterall, friends are usually said to be the best people for relationships.

The probability is there that someone would catch feelings that the other would refuse to acknowledge

Friends-with-benefits : Do this lead to meaningful relationship?
Having sex casually with benefits might lead to feelings that one person would not want to admit [Credit - Shutterstock]
Having sex casually with benefits might lead to feelings that one person would not want to admit [Credit – Shutterstock]

In conclusion: the fear is that involving in friends-with-benefit situation doesn’t always turn good. While the probability remains that someone should catch emotions that the other wouldn’t want to admit or act on; but isn’t always the case.

No matter what – Regular Sex generates intimacy, and it’s not surprising that feelings gets in. few times, by one person and some other times, by both people.

In all of this, the most vital remains to take full responsibility for your actions, feelings and hope for the best outcome

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Bueze is a Senior Content Creator at Newsvil.com|| He is a Journalist|| Writer|| Digital Media Strategist || Web Designer #ProudProduct of The Nigerian Institute of Information Extensionist(NIE) ||Die-hard Football Fan. Proudly from Imo State, Eastern Nigeria.

1 Comment

  1. FWB is a lustful arrangement between two or more people, sleeping with each other under the title “no strings attached”… Mostly found between people that don’t want to take themselves serious. If it’s not husband, fiancee (or 1 night stand mistakenly OOO)
    Then it’s a No-No… It never ends well
    I see it as a compensating arrangement headed by one party to make the other party feel good while consuming themselves sexually without a proper title.

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